Hi Jenny! I really hate to change the momentum of your thread, but I need an opinion and words of wisdom from an expert! If a person is struggling to break free from their patterns of co-dependency, would it be common for them to have to go through a period of "independence" before they can stabilize at "interdependence"? Being the INTP that I am, I know that I may look for too many "logical" reasons for things that happen, but this is something that I think I'm observing in my W, and it makes sense to me. Or am I all wet, just looking for excuses and reasons.
Thanks for any input you can give me!!
JJ
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