C2H, I must tell you again how much I appreciate your taking the time to "walk me through this". I have been trying to think things through prior to speaking. I am very good at this until it comes to the children,when I get frustrated and anxious.He tells me that I can handle the ADD issue,better than he can, because of my professional abilities. He resents having to talk to teachers,counselor's or doctors and really doesn't act on any advice we are given. I don't mind handling things,but when he keeps quiet and refuses to actively support me in what I am trying to do,I feel sabotaged. We are going away for the weeknd (all of us) and I hope to be able to talk to him about some of this. Since, we don't have to deal with school over the next three days,perhaps things will calm down a bit. My H is a brilliant lawyer and was at the top of his class throughout school. He cannot relate to the problems our children are having... as things came so easily for him. Thanks again for sharing your insight...Jenny
PS The Biblical quotes seemed a tad sexist, but I am sure there are a few about "husbands"...
