Hi C2H..it's gratifying to hear you've had similar feelings at times,but have perservered in your role as "the giver", to eventually obtain positive results. I am working on becoming more gracious in my giving. However I needed to be reminded that my "not doing anything" would not help the situ...I knew this! I did spend more time "turning things over" this weekend and felt a sense of relief. I am going to keep at it. It sounds like you had a good family weekend and navigated through rough waters safely.(But... that is no surprise!)
My son is back at school and I am trying to implement plans/safeguards to help him follow through on his obligations. As my H says he's a "chaos machine" and tends to be disorganized and forgetful which is symptomatic of ADD. Unfortunately,I feel like I "carry the load" in this dept.,too.I had a talk w my H tonight asking him to be more active in supervising son and his homework efforts. I doubt he will follow through,though...he has a tough time with these things. Take care..Jenny
