Folks, Hi! Do you remember me? I've been swamped between the work and the family, and haven't posted for months. But, I had a few minutes of quiet time this weekend so I thought I'd check out this update.
Good to hear that you all are still hanging in there. Me too. We have more good days than bad, I am happy to report. JW, Wow! It's been a long time. My h has yet to apologize. I doubt he ever will. But we do talk about what happened, and he listens pretty well to my fears and worries. Talking them out seems to help them dissipate more readily.
I did want to add that when we started putting the marriage back together, the daughter starting falling apart. She was acting out her dad's behavior. She is still seeing a psychiatrist for her little trip to the twilight zone, but doing very well. She is still being treated for depression and social anxiety disorder, but doing much better. Mostly I am worried about her grades as they are not much better and she is looking at college in the fall of 2002. I will be happy when she finds herself finally and settles into being OK with herself. She has become much more outgoing in the past year.
Lay offs are coming at my job. I may get the axe as well, but I figure after my 2 years in hell and surviving what we've been through, umemployment is just another bump in the road, huh?
Well, I must run and finish the laundry. I hear my wm has stopped spinning. Need to go put the next load in, and start on the BR. Yippee, toilets!!! My favorite thing to do....(NOT!)
