Jenny- maybe it was just "meant to be," to send you and your husband full circle but with a new appreciation for the incalculable value of having a homemaker at home (even while she has income opportunities or consultant work). Unfortunately, our society does not hold "homemakers,"or teachers for that matter, in the highest regard and it is WRONG. These two groups are charged with shaping and molding the minds of the next generation(s) and we've forgotten that. Your husband is simply reflecting the cultural norms but it sounds like it is not too late to correct his thinking.
I think it is great that H is helping out because those are memories he will not ever be able to replace. It will also continue to build his appreciation for the work you have to do while he's swimming with the sharks. Keep checking in, we could continue to use your "sage" advice around here. C2H
Committed2Him- "C2H" All Things (Back from Spain!)...18
