Welcome to you...C2H!
It's nice to meet another successful DB'er.You have made quite a bit of progress,but remember to avoid pushing your W at all costs.Don't question her about her feelings,but continue to draw her closer with an attractive independence,but plenty of TLC.It really is a balancing act,knowing just when to distance a bit,to keep up her interest.

Neely...don't forget the basic premise in DBing....work on YOURSELF..you cannot make anyone else change! Do wonderful things to enhance your attractiveness both in terms of your professional and personal life.Don't focus on your H's behavior that irritates you or you'll make yourself crazy!
Perhaps he should prepare the meals or you could arrange to have a mtg or two that keeps you away from home at dinner time... at which point, he is left in control.Believe me,he will MISS you!I utilized this technique effectively.(MY)Absence(due to working) did make my H's heart grow fonder.
Jenny