Hi Neely! Welcome to this thread.It sounds like you have had a conflict filled relationship for awhile.What really strikes me is the obvious personality differences between the two of you and a lack of understanding as to how to bridge the gap. You have described your H as rather a "right-brain" type,while you are more "left brained".Perhaps this is at the core of some of your differences.The type of eastern meditation that seems to be attractive to your spouse is a key.I would suggest that you attend these classes with him on those Saturday evenings and give it a try.Comprise,understanding and tolerance are crucial elements in rebuilding a relationship. Jenny
