bruce,

The following is merely an academic exercise, as #1 who knows (she probably doesn't) and #2 it does not matter.
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Why would she (W) not inform me about her eye? It was very serious!


Why should she tell you? It's not like you're her H or anything (from her perspective). Believe me, my H could be in treatment for cancer right now and I'd never know. Besides, it might make her look (pick one) a) weak, b) stupid, c) like she needs help from you.
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Why did she mention that she is alone in the office all day Wednesdays?


That one sounds like a random comment, though your theory is possibly correct, not that it means anything!

-- Karen