Got a call this afternoon from the OM's X. Have not spoken to her for over a year. She wanted to tell me that the reason she does not wave when I do is because she cannot stand to have anything to do with me, cannot stand any of us, that I was part of the whole deception, that the whole town knows they are living together, that she is sick of seeing them everywhere doing things. She said the my W was talking about her around town telling others that she was disturbed etc. She asked what was wrong with me, I was divorced. I asked her when she was moving away then. WOW, that set her off...she was here first, and we should leave. Then I commented on my feeling that the judge's decree did not end my marriage that I was still married in God's sight and that I was standing for my marriage and when the blinders of Satan are removed W will make a decision according to His wil! She started to really rant and rave so I just hit the "end" button.
I have been praying for her and the OM that their marriage would be restored also. She sounded much like Faith's H when he would be so ugly to her.