Just a note,

XW just called to get D19's SSN, and she thanked me for the Mother's Day card. I send the most plain, non-connecting card I could find. Also last night her mom called and left a message thanking me for her card, and wanting me and her to take FIL out for a ride and lunch sometime when it is nice. Another stone in the pile. Thank you to the one who suggested the plain card.

That is all. I try to not wonder what is going on when her car is at her office all night. She is not mine anymore so whatever. (That sounds convincing....now to convince myself)