Jenny,

I read your thread and am so happy you made it back with your h. Mine is in MLC, gone, but I was wondering if maybe you have an answer for me?

In MLC, when they are in the deep cave and in the running away stage, do you know when they get out of it, is it gradual or like an awakening fairly quick. I imagine the deep cave stage is the darkest depths of despair since there has been no contact, only e-mails. Is this the time to back off totally or try to meet some of his needs thru e-mail?