I went away for the Labor Day Weekend. My H and I have the same bday, 9/2. I really didn't want to be in town. It was his 50th, my 42nd.
I do need some advise. My H and I don't talk much. We exchange emails, and H picks the mail up at the house on Sunday evenings. I had asked H to pick the mail up on Monday evening versus Sunday last week, because I was having my family over for a bbq. Thought it would be ackward if H was there and everyone else was there too. Anyway, at noon, my H calls me on the phone and says there was no mail in the mail box, and was at the house to pick it up. That just totally shocked me. I haven't seen H in four months, so him showing up at the house was a total surprise. I was nice, but not overly sweet. H was very sheepish. It was a very short conversation. Then I got an email later in the week and he said he was sorry for interrupting me and that it would never happen again.
Ok, logically, I know he came over to see me. H has picked up the mail for the last four months without us running into each other, so why now. Then why the response. I can guess why. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? I really want to write him an email and say that he wasn't interrupting me and then talk about the relationship. Do I write from my heart and tell him that I really don't want this to be over, but I realize that if he doesn't love me, then we have to move on. HELP!!
Thanks for the advise.
Keep the faith, Kath
[This message has been edited by Pixie6 (edited 11-28-2000).]
