This is a big one for me as well.....I guess fortunately in my sitch, my W is still living with us and she does fulfill her mommy duties...for the most part. However, she has been very withdrawn from them (used to laugh and play with them more, have more patience, etc.). I guess I should remind her that D's especially, need the mommy influence to help them grow into strong women. I doubt that she will truly see it as being a problem at this point.



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