That's where I've been for some time, Pmd, but I feel like now she's getting too comfortable and just using me to help her set up her new life - she's buying things and working on OM's house, to prepare to move in with him. Of course, the place is a dump and she doesn't want to live there yet. She's accumulating debt on a credit card that she said she'll pay off with the money I give her to buy-out her 1/2 of the house, but now she's looking for more cash and pressuring me for it - I'm not willing to do it, for the simple reason that it's stupid of me, and I'd be stuck paying the full expenses of her and my boy while giving her $ for OM's place. And that's not going to happen unless the court forces it!
