WAW - Worth sticking it out?

[RBinBR]

She doesn't want to move out for reasons, honestly, of convenience. Bodes well for her new relationship, doesn't it? Of course, OM has been identified - by her - as a major doormat for some time. She said something about wanting to spend time with me and S after she's gone - family things. I told her that was unrealistic BS, and that OM wouldn't condone that - her comment: "F him".

My W has said the same thing -- she expects to go on trips to Disneyworld, etc. with D and me even after a divorce.

You know, it really can't be any fun being an OM with your W still emotionally tied to someone else and being shut out of a family life. You really couldn't have any confidence for the future and would basically live like most of us do, always worrying if your lover was going to leave you.