WAW - Worth sticking it out?

[RBinBR]

Deezee, since she forced you into the talk, it's likely she had already made up her mind to leave. Don't beat yourself up over it.

she's now planning to leave as soon as we can get a lawyer started!!!!!!!!

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Next question - do I drag my feet getting to a lawyer (my current thought) forcing her to take action, or do I get it done fast to show detachment/GAL efforts now that the "cat's out of the bag" again on my feelings......

I don't understand how getting a lawyer has anything to do with when she leaves. She can leave anytime she wants; she doesn't need a lawyer's permission.

Also, I'm confused by the "we" and "get a lawyer". The two of you will have different lawyers. A lawyer can only work for one client at a time, and the two of you will have competing interests.