As seen above, I fell off the DB wagon and talked R with W - she's now planning to leave as soon as we can get a lawyer started!!!!!!!!
Learn from me people!!!!!!!!! She YANKED me in to that discussion, I knew I shouldn't have it, did anyway, now I've set back my efforts by a month, or maybe ruined them
Next question - do I drag my feet getting to a lawyer (my current thought) forcing her to take action, or do I get it done fast to show detachment/GAL efforts now that the "cat's out of the bag" again on my feelings......
