Quote: If you have any thoughts on how far I should go in describing the new me to her, I'd love to hear them.....
As the last post sorta already said, you DON'T describe your changes to her, you let her discover them on her own. To take that further, you shouldn't be doing anything very overt that looks like you are trying to get her attention. Just CHANGE and let that speak for itself. Your marriage/issues didn't go bad in a day, week, or even year so give these changes a chance to sink in, it may take awhile.
