Suddenly - Can you tell me how things have worked for you? - I see you've been here a long time - most folks seem to last less than a year, good or bad results - I tried looking at your posts, but can't see how things are for you presently.
How and when did the Retrouvaille topic enter into your relationship? She would scoff at that idea today, so I WON'T be bringing it up!
I'm keeping a close eye on the credit situation, to keep things under control. I even cancelled a couple that were "lost", as devious as that sounds. Sad part is, I feel guilty about it - lying is SO aginst my instincts. By the way, I won't even be answering her on the "move out" question - in her heart, she doesn't want to leave our home, and she doesn't want our son separated from me OR from her when he and I are together. The tough part will be when the day comes that there's no reason to put it off any longer. She's so.............rational......about it these days - part of that apathy I see. BUT, she probably thinks I'm rational too, because of the detachment. [If she does, I'll be accepting my Academy Award next year; and you're all invited to the ceremony, with your wives and husbands!]
