Yeah, GH, I've thought about the safety net thing - interestingly enough, I am totally convinced that my wife sees and believes that I've changed for the better, and she knows how loyal and committed I am to promises - I'm almost a fanatic about it - for myself, though, I don't force my ideals on others.
The overiding tone lately is just that she is, as you noted in my hate survey, apathetic toward me, and has officially given up on our future, thinking she has to find something different. Naturally, I would LOVE to talk to her about this, but don't worry - I probably won't even if she tries to! That will happen, and soon I think, but it will be a major minefield for me when it does. If you have any thoughts on how far I should go in describing the new me to her, I'd love to hear them.....
