Thanks GH, hope things went well for you this weekend. I can't wait to hear.
Forgot to add to my thread one quick conversation where I may have made a mistake. She told me she needed money to start her own checking account (we've talked openly about sparation finances) and I asked her when she was leaving - she asked when I wanted her to go. My quick answer was "never" , and she replied "we've already been through that". I just dropped it and she said she needed cash to get started somewhere else, and if I got a July bonus at work she could go then, and it's only 8 more weeks, and could I wait, since it wasn't long?
Remember - she's planning to live with OM in the house he bought and is working on while he lives elsewhere, and she's putting big $$ on her credit card she says she'll take with her, to help him do it. What the heck ???
She's never openly told me her plan, by the way.
Maybe my reply should have been different - some of the best advice I've gotten from my counselor is to force her to make her own decisions, don't help, don't encourage, nothing, and I've tried to be constant with that, but I don't want to push her out - remember, I've got a 5 yr old son that goes with her, and I can't do much DBing with her gone.
Any thought, Giant Killers? I could use some input.
