A small update - remember, this morning I asked her to watch our son Friday night, and she called me about it - sort of hinted she wanted to know why. Today she called to ask me to come home early from work and uncharacteristically told me why in detail - when I got home, she had left her school grades out and told me I could look at them if I wanted to, then told me how she did on a test last night... I was polite and encouraging, even left a gold star on her report card, but said nothing to initiate conversation. To top it all off, she told me specifically that she'd be home tonight after school, and lord knows I wouldn't ask that question!! I doubt it means much - maybe she just wants more time to drain the checking account before leaving (just kidding - it's already empty for real reasons)- but do you suppose the mystery has her thinking?
