I too had a great therapist. Visited with him for 8 month's on the University's nickel. Without him, I would still be in a funk. He wasn't able to pin point a reason for the relationship fallout. One intersting thing. When wiffy was going with me and claiming no affair, he never spilled the beans to me, he knew. But he did turn me on to Michelle Weiner Davis. Smart man. Later after wiffy quite going, didn't like the therapist when I discovered the affair, funny how that works. Anyway, therapist then assigned blame percentages. Mine was 50%, of that 50% mine was 5%. In other words, he said it was all about selfishness and choices, etc. He did say he was surprised that things did not work out in the end. He Said wiffy was best out of my life afterall.
I have no contact as of today. Once I signed the divorce papers. That was it. I was her problem, I was her misery, I was ......When in the end. She is her own worst enemy.
Sound familar to anyone reading these post? Change the names and the situaitons are the same.
There is no such thing as a mid life crisis. It's just actions resulting from poor choices, weak spirits and selfish people. Putting a syndrome name to it allow for an excuse. Weak human characteristics should be recognized for what they are. Shelfish and uncaring
