Don't think I posted on your thread before, but thought I would throw in my 2c worth.....
Some mystery is good, and it helps with detaching. If your W is the type to think suicidal thoughts, then it would be good for you to always appear calm and non-judgmental. It is great that you are the forgiving type - an excellent quality to have. I hope your W is seeking counselling, and it might be a good idea for you to do the same. It helped me a lot.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
