You did well in responses and requests. If she wants to have her secrets in life, so can you. It's just the silly little high school games. I know you didn't ask for this, but your in the game none-the-less.
Think of it this way; she's acting like a teenager and will get her way just because, so you need to live life as if she is not there nor will she be there in the future. Anything more that that is gravy. Listen to the folks about not setting yourself up for failure. This is in emotions, hopes, dreams, even financially. She is highly vulnerable to spending large amounts of money to ease her pain now, and you may not be aware of it. Watch those credit cards with your name on them. Have no expectations and live your life. Do the best you can in this terrible situation.
Also, whether you know this or not, she is hurting inside, this crap is eating her up with guilt, she just won't outwardly express her misery in front of you.
