Jenny,
You say it took 10 months of DBing to see a glimmer of hope. Why does it take that long? I didn't start really DBing until about 4 months ago, and I don't see even a glimmer. I have given up hope. Could you tell me what made you keep going even though you weren't getting any results? I'm very discouraged. We have been separated 1 year, nothing legal yet.