OK, It's me again although I cannot tell if my other post worked or not.
Anyway, I am sure that I said too many things at the house. He mentioned calling the counselor again and just does not know why. I tell him again it is for his emotional well being and he says that I should quit worrying about him. I say that I can worry but I cannot make him do it and that I would like for him to because I think it would help him and if he will not do it for him then do it for me. I know that is not DB'ing but he always uses that line on me since all this started.
A friend of mine calls while he is here and he looks at the caller id and notices that the call is from VA and he walks out the door. I get off of the phone and go outside and he says that I did not have to get off of the phone that fast and I said that was fine I needed to go back to work and he says who was that and I said Ch**** and he says that is what I thought. I said why and he says because he is calling from VA and I said well actually he just moved there from WA and he says something about him calling and I said that he was calling to see how I was because he had heard what was going on through a friend and he says who and I said Ro*** and he says that it is so obvious why they are talking about me. (I have to tell you that these two guys are friends of mine that I did used to date at some point (one when I was very young and another a few years before I met my husband but he knows that I would never get back with Ro** and that me and Ch*** are friends. I am sorry but I did detect some jealousy there so I did not offer to tell him that Ch*** is married. I leave and go back to work and he calls me (he has not done that in a long time) he says that he is calling to tell me Hi and for me to have a nice trip next week and to be careful since I am flying, etc. He then proceeds to tell me that the obvious thing he was talking about earlier was that either one or both of those guys was wanting me. I said No they are not and he said that I was being naive. He said that he was glad that I was talking to friends and I was like what? and he says that he knows that I did not talk to them when I was married (excuse me I still am) and that I obviously must have felt deprived and I said do not go there and he said I am just messing with you and I said that I did not feel deprived and he said "Yeah" in a sarcasstic way. (the whole conversation we were laughing and teasing each other)
Anyway, either this will make him wonder and rethink some things or he will think that these friends are after me and that I maybe want them and then he will be like, "well she is fine and now I can move on". Who knows. I know that when I came home and noticed that one of the phone books was missing my immediate reaction was that maybe he was going to look in the phone book for a lawyer. Hell, he knows lawyers already in this town, but. I know that I am being paranoid, but if I go away and come back and he has filed, I don't think that I can handle it. My PMA was up and now it is going down.
He did say that he wants me to set up an appointment for him to talk to Michelle's colleague and I will tonight when I talk to him and hopefully he can speak to him tomorrow or Friday and if not it will probably have to wait until not next week but the week after that. Any insight into this latest development?
