I am new to the BB - just the last couple of weeks.
You can find my original post in the Newcomers...
I am curious, since I haven't been able to read all your posts, I did skim through your sucess story.
What was your situation how long were you DBing, were you separated during the process?
I struggle with the 'mixed' messages I get from my H. Some days he 'still loves me', 'small part of him wants to save the marriage', 'doesn't want to be divorced', 'misses me', 'has thought about coming home', 'wants sex' - the turns right around and goes out of his way to squelch any hope, tells me 'I jump right to thinking things are going to work out', when he's been 'telling me he's still fairly certain that he wants a divorce', even one day telling me that 'he'd go file tomorrow, but he gave me his word he'd wait until September' - if I go a couple days without calling - he does call...If he was truely DONE - wouldn't he just be done? Why the dangling carrot routine?
In the other forum - I posted a question 'Sex 2B or Not 2B?' Coming from the perspective of finding DBing sucessful - what is your take?
