LS,I would advise being mysterious and unavaialble.Your H needs to "miss you" and wonder where you are.It will help him get in touch w his feelings for you.Let him miss you today.
Kathy, I heard the same things and actually felt the same way for months (as your relatives do).I was so very angry and distrustful of the stranger who had taken over my H's mind. Actually,it helped me detach as I considered my real H absent and the imposter a manifestation of his MLC.
To all... It's important not to discuss your relationship with family.It's great to have their love and support,but DBing is foreign to them.
At this point,now that my "real H" has returned,I regret revealing so much to some people,especially to my brothers who will never feel the same way again or have respect for my H. It's best to vent here on the board and to a very few trusted supporters who will not try to influence you.My strength came from all of my friends on this board.
Bye for now and do wonderful things for yourselves today...Jenny
