Jenny, thanks for your words, but I am not by far a DBing expert. I'm on month 10 of separation, 2 living apart. I made so, so, so many mistakes in the first 7 months (begging, pleading, flipping out when he wouldn't listen!!!!!) So, I have truly made my mistakes. My H told me that I could write the book on "how to ruined the marriage", and follow up with a second book on "how not to get your marriage back together". So, I guess we all learn through experience.
I have been reading many of the stories on the board namely Jenny's, Johnswife and GG. I spent too much time today at work reading!! Just one of those days were I couldn't stay focused. I look at the strength all of you had, and am trying to pick up any tips that I can use to reignite my marriage. Got to finish reading.
