Mike Just reread your thread - One piece of advice about the depression thing mentioned before:
I know you'd love to tell your W about it, that it hasn't been the "real you", because it's true, and has been such a breakthrough for you, but resist the temptation to do it, or don't make a big deal about it. I had a similar breakthrough myself and it was met with:
"So none of this is your fault?, you were just sick?...."
Not what I meant, but it goes to show you: detach, detach, detach..........let her SEE how you've changed, don't tell her.
