Hey Mike, You have gotten alot of great advice so i wont add to much,except that to say listen to what Gh and others have said.I too hate to say anything that I dont know about,but to continue with the bad guy approach for helping you only,i know that unless you catch them in bed in the act they will never admit it.I even saw the Op truck at my house all night,and all my W could say was ..that's your problem,you dont think anyone can just be friends...C'mon. Things at times may seem hopeless,but in time things will get better one way or the other,learn to detach and be happy around her,and start doing things for yourself,and she will start to wonder about you. Another thing..the MLC thing yall have spoken about,and the fact that she has brought it up could be herself trying to alleviate some of her own guilt and not feel so bad about what she is doing...like an excuse..Just a thought.Be nice and validate her feelings and GAL. DeeJay
