Quote: First I've realized I've been depressed this whole time and didn't even know it.
Good to understand just what you may be up against with your biggest, badest opponent...you.
Quote: However a HUGE breakthrough, she is not going to pursue this other relationship until Divorce is over.
Um, I think you may know this already, and not to be harsh, but I don't really believe this. Sorry, but I think she may be telling you what you want to hear. Once she moves out, just be prepared to see signs that things are not "waiting" for a D. She COULD be telling the truth, I am just warning you to go on with DB and not make that a condition for your positive outlook. It will be GREAT for you if she keeps her word but...
Quote: She also told me yesterday that If we both have not moved on in 3 years that we would be back together.
Huh? Why 3 years? Strange...
Quote: She also wanted the book when I mentioned I found this great self help book for relationships and she said it was cool as long it wasn't a book about MLC or something like that. Was this bad?
Not really if she asked for it but then again, she'll now know all the things you are doing as you do them. Dunno how that will work for or against you. I do have a question, why did she qualify that it not be a book on MLC? That, coupled with the earlier statment about 3 years and you'll be back together makes me think SHE thinks she's going through MLC since 3 years is a number I hear associated with MLC a lot.
Quote: She just says it's to wierd with us anymore
This is the part your working on you will help fix. Once YOU stop BEING weird and start making personal improvments, THINGS will be less weird between you.
Quote: I know talk is cheap only in my actions can I show change. So I'm just going with the seperation and will give her what help she needs financially, mentally and physically cause that's all I feel I can do.
Yes, actions DO speak volumes and the fact that your W is telling you this is good because it means she will be looking for your changes. Do what you can do, try to stay positive and move forward.
