Thank you Grasshopper, those are good words of advice. I have realized a lot of things over the past week that I need to change not just in our relationship but everyone around me for a long time. Today I've been happy to know that I have been 99.9% of the problem and I need to fix myself but not for her or this will just replay later on in my life. I've been reading DR and all I can say is wow it's some powerful stuff.
I am really worried though on Mothers Day she wants to break the news to her Grand parents and Aunts while we are both there that we are getting seperated. I think I really need to think about that situation and tread very lightly. Any advice would be great!
