WAW now having an EA

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She just says she never felt it for me, that she got married cause she was pregnant and felt pressure from her family to do the right thing. I don't know how to change myself to feel it for me.

I'm starting to feel like there is no saving it and I should just move on as hard as that may be for me. She says I'm sweet and treat her good just that I'm not her fairy tale and she wants the Romance Novel passion and she will never find that with me.

Just so you know, my W told me that she only married me to please her parents because they liked me. She said that I made her feel safe and comfortable but that she couldn't live without true passion in her life.

This is standard WAS-speak. It's what they all say. The A changes their perspective. Don't let it get to you. You know that it's not true.

I don't know what to do, it seems if I try to be nice it pushes her away, it creeps her out when I do sweet things for her. I leave her alone and she gets more distant.

Leave her alone. She needs distance before you have any chance to reconnect with her.