WAW now having an EA

[RBinBR]

This affair and anything else you do to hurt me isn’t going to bring me down because I am at peace knowing I am filling your every want and need even letting you go no matter how bad that hurts me. I am numb to it now, just like it doesn’t bug me you slept at his house, or whatever you did last night or even the fact you talked to him for 45 minutes while I was gone.

So, you are going to brag about the fact that you snooped on her and that you know that she talked to him. How is that going to help? You are also bragging that she can't hurt you -- how does saying nanny-nanny-boo-boo help? Also, you cannot possibly have filled her "every want and need" ... she clearly has emotional needs that you have not met, such as the need to feel secure in your love and not feel like you still love your ex.

I may never be able to forgive you for giving up on me. There are only a couple things I know of that would fix that.

Well, the first thing I will tell you is that you should work on forgiving her. If you decide to hold grudges, you won't get anywhere. Secondly, why would you tell her that anyway?

I can forgive you for everything but you need to ask me for that forgiveness in order for me to do that. I may not be able to give that forgiveness yet but if it’s sincere I probably would.

This is pathetic. You are arrogantly setting yourself up as superior to her. She must beg you to forgive her? Mike, you need to get off your pedestal and realize how significantly you have contributed to the destruction of your marriage.