Good Morning LS, Your saga is very similar to my own,even the weight gain.I think the dynamics of your relationship is representative of a majority of situations,we read about on this board.
Now,my friend,you are thinking and analyzing too much.Be action oriented.Don't be at home,yourself and become mysterious in your activities.Of course be loving and non judgemental and DON'T talk about dating other people or about any relationship issues...ZIP IT!
Don't underestimate the power of an intimate relationship w H,even if things are not moving along as quickly as you desire. Seduce your H and flirt w him.Prepare his favorite meals and flatter him,while at the same time distancing your self,at times.
Go out w friends,work overtime,go to conferences... whatever...but don't be there waiting for him all the time.Surprise him w an erratic schedule.It worked for me!
John's wife is a MASTER at using these techniques and is a success story.Read her old posts for guidance.
You are on your way to becomming a success story,too. Keep DBing....Jenny
