Lstewart I wanted to tell you that I think you are on the right path and doing a good job. Your H is confused and he recognises that. That is a good thing. Be patient and let your home be a safe and comfortable place for him to be. He will most likely soon find it easier and more enjoyable to be at home. Let the OW and her child be the ones to make waves for your H. The more they are the problem the sooner he will be home to stay. He is learning that the grass is not greener and that home is a pretty nice place. Let him figure that out and let him be the one to come to you. Meanwhile keep DBing and doing things for you. When he is around smile and be happy. Let him know you are OK.
Its working so keep doing it. Confustion for these H's is a step they take on thier way back to you. You see he once thought he had it all figured out. Now he is learning that maybe he figured wrong. Detach from his drama and he will find his way home.
