Kathy, Sorry,I misunderstood where your H is living.
It's even better that he is in apt w/o the OW.The fact that he has had several OW in the last few months indicates his restlessness and inability to to handle a single relationship. Morereaso to try to "wait this out" if you want him.
BTW,you are doing a wonderful job of fortifying yourself w support(legally,emotionally and w Michele's Board)
You mentioned you are nurturing yourself on the spiritual level and that's wonderful,too!
Remember the holistic frame of reference...mind,body and spirit.It is necessary to take good care of yourself in every way.
How are you doing profesiionally? Are you working? Take care and have a meaningful day...Jenny
PS. I recommend Frank Pittman's book "Grow Up",today.
