Thanks for your reply. By the way, How do you change the subject skillfully? What should I say when he says things like "What are you doing? I hate being in limbo. Why do you still want to be with me? I feel like if I can just keep him off the subject of divorce then maybe this will give him time to think and then he will realize he doesn't want a divorce. He thinks that we need to talk about things like us and sometimes it is hard to keep changing the subject. How did you keep changing the subject and how do you change the subject skillfully?
I would appreciate any advice because I really do not know what to do. I would love for us to go out and do soemthing fun together, but I know that I should not push that. When did your husband start to come around and what were the first signs of him coming around?
Any advice is appreciated. Especially from someone who made it through this successfully. Thank you.
