I was wondering? Did your husband ever seem to start to tell you that he missed you and that maybe this is not right him not being there and then backslid into maybe we should just divorce and be friends for now? This is what my husband seems to be doing. I detached and started to not be so available, (We are separated and only see each other from time to time, but we talk frequently) and it seemed to be peaking his interest and he started to call more and come around more and then today he says What are you doing? You seem to be so bubbly. Maybe we should just divorce and then be friends for awhile and he says that I would probably get over it before he does? What kind of talk is this? If anyone can respond, please do so. I need some expert advice. Thanks.