i hope in time that i will be another of the positive stories to help everyone.
i have a couple of questions for you. From what i have read on this board, alot of people have said the longer your spouse is home the better you are. my h is going thru something mlc, who knows. there is another person in the pic, whether it is am ea or more i am not sure. anyway, my h is still at home and is sharing the same bed with me, which as you said is extremely difficult becuse at times, he can be so distant and rude and hurtful.
i have gotten to the point of giving him his space, altho it has taken me 5 months to get there. i only hope that it is not too late.
this am i had written h a letter and apologized to hm for all the hateful, hurtful things that i have done since jan. do you think this was the right thing to do? i have also told h that i want to work on us, but respect his wish for space.
i would really appreciate your insite to this. ann
