Jim: Personally, I find it a little odd that she would be shopping for you for your apartment. If I were you I would say thank you, but I can shop for myself and decide what I need and don't need. Maybe she wants to be sure that you are well taken care of after your supposed move.
Yes, I think it is perfectly normal to be hurting and feeling down. Try to not let her see that though. She is trying to push your buttons - don't let her.
