I have a question for Jenny or anyone else who knew her story.....was there a separation involved. I know I am sort of butting in on your thread here but I need all of the reassurances I can get right now. And a success story is the best reassurance you can get, so here I am. I am almost to my date of separation ( june 1st) and as it is getting closer I am getting more afraid of what might come with the separation. I would also like a females opinion on something......My W just called me and told me she was shopping and wehn I asked her she was shopping for she said stuff for your apt. for when you move. We are still on good terms and are friends but is this normal???? And are the feelings of hurt and anger that I felt when she said that normal as well???? Please let me know....I need answers.