Thanks for the response. I know that my h needs women to rub his ego but in my situations he takes a polygraph every 6 months because of his past actions. He knows at least at the 6 month point I will find out. I agree with you though that it was complete disregard of my feelings. One of the things we are working on with my counselor is setting boundaries before they come up. We had set a boundary that no meals alone with women and he has kept that as far as the last poly shows. Also he is not allowed to drink with women at all. I honor my h why is it that he can't do the same? Thanks again,
