H dinner w/women at work

[luvless]

Gosh..where do I start? Ok..first know that this has no bearing on you as a person. He is a man that obviously has a low self esteem and needs ego rubs from other women. I read your post it was like reading my own story except my husband goes to lunch with women at the office. Oh yeah it's always about business..don't believe it for a minute. I think when your spouse knows it bothers you and he still does it..it's a blatant disregard for your feelings. Have you voiced your feelings about this? Trust is your big issue as with mine. I have no proof of any affair but these ego boosts from women he works with really interferes in our marriage. He has voiced his displeasure with me and how so and so is so nice. This is the most ignorant statment any man can make. I'm starting to ramble a little bit so before I lose focus..I know one thing. YOU have to take care of YOU. You are at the right place. I've been here for a week reading and reading and it has helped tremendously. I'm stuck in a hard place..and so are you..if we voice our dissatisfaction with dinners and lunches with women - then we are controlling. If we let them continue an affair is inevitable. The only thing I believe is that you work on yourself. No matter what happens..in the end it will be his loss. Hope I helped some.