Adam congrats again. You reminded me of something I read here when I boarded the rollercoaster from hell. It was watch their actions not their words. How true that turned out to be.
I know from my experience that the actions come first. We know when our spouses do something that shows they care even if at the same time they are saying its over. I just ignored the garbage he was saying and kept smiling and showing him I cared and understood that he was going through a tough time too. DBing does work.
So Adam don't worry if the ILU's are not there yet. They will be in a little time and your W will be so grateful to you that you stood by her when she needed you most. Keep up the good work.
