Adam, I am also happy for you!!! I still long for the day when my H will initiate ILU, but at least he is saying it in response again. Those intimate moments are soo true. That is why I take faith and hope when my H will "let" me come into the bathroom while he is showering or change in front of me in the bedroom. He stopped doing all these things when he first decided he wanted to leave me. Now they come and go, but they are happening more frequently.
