Hey! Here's a thought....my h loves when he is stressed and tense...
A nice way to help her may be to offer her a backrub to ease her tension. However, I caution you to not get caught up in it yourself. You don't want it turning into sexual foreplay or she will think you were only thinking of yourself. So, if you can touch her without getting turned on, I would recommend a gentle shoulder and back rub. And be sure and warm the lotion in your hands first, so you don't send her jumping.
