maybe it was projecting, it never really stopped, just became more strained, if that's the right word, during a time.
OT,
I'm not sure I remember recieving specific advice regarding this subject from you in the past. I really hadn't mentioned it prior to now....except for the hot tub incident, but I hadn't mentioned that we had been or were ML. So if you did provide some advice, I am sincerely sorry that I did not seem receptive because I typically find your advice to be very worthwhile.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
